Because I have the best friends a girl could ever ask for...
I came home today to a package on my step. That's not something very unusual, but this one was definitely special.
Today I got a package from my very best friends. I've never met them in real life, but they are truly my real life best friends and I don't know what I would do without them. Without me knowing the sent me this gift as a congratulations for Baby Wil.
So to my very best friends, I Thank You very much, and love you all!
I feel naked. Well, my wrist does anyway. Ever since Wil was born I haven't been able to wear my watch. I'm afraid of scratching his little head when he's nursing. I'm sure I'll get over it soon, just one of the little paranoia's that come along with childbirth. I'll be able to wear it again soon.
It's funny how you don't notice just how much you rely on something until it's gone. I always took for granted that no matter where I was, or what I was doing, I could always look down and see the what time it is. Now I find myself scanning the walls for a clock or digging in my purse/diaper bag for the cellphone. What really gets me is that time seems to be escaping me. What I thought was an hour passing by ends up being three. I miss my watch.
My watch is nothing special. I don't have Diamond Watches, and it isn't extra shiny. It has no special features to speak of. It's just a cheap leather strap and a very basic face. I think maybe it's time for an upgrade. Maybe that is what I'll ask (hint) for this coming Mother's Day. Since I didn't get a push present (and I totally deserved one, 9lbs 11oz baby) an awesome Mother's Day present is totally needed!
What I would really love to have is one of the Stuhrling Original watches. I think it would look so good on my wrist. Don't you? It may even help me get over my worries of scratching Wil.
So if anyone knows my hubby be sure to point him in the direction of this post. That way he'll know exactly what to get me for my belated Push Present and Mother's Day.
Epidurals are a wonderful thing...I didn't get one.
That is what I will remember forever about Wil's birth...my lack of epidural.
But I'm getting a head of myself here.
William was due to be born on December 15th 2009 (according to the ultrasound) December 17th (according to my dates). Both days came and went without a sign of labor coming. I had two membrane sweeps, one a week before my due date, and one on the 16th. Neither brought labor on. I was getting really quite frustrated as I didn't want to be in the Hospital for the Holidays. I have a 4.5 year old that would really be sad if Mommy wasn't there to see what Santa brought for him.
Jump to December 21st.
Ben woke up crying around 6:30am because he had had a nightmare. He didn't want to talk about it cause it was too sad. I calmed him down and he went back to sleep. 6:30am is a little too early for us, we're NOT morning people. For some reason, this morning I decided to stay up rather than go back to bed. Not sure why, I just did. I sat in front of the TV for a few hours watching A Baby Story and a few other baby shows. At 9:10am the phone rang. It came up Unknown Name, so I didn't answer it (I screen my calls). At 9:12 the cell phone rang...that's when I knew that December 21st was going to be Wil's Birthday. I answered the phone and was told to come in as soon as I could if I wanted to be induced. And I soooo wanted it.
I woke DH and Ben up, told them to get ready, it was time to go. Within an hour we had dropped Ben of at G-Ma's and we were sitting in a delivery room of our local Hospital. After all the fun paperwork (though not that much, we live in Canada) the Doctor came in to examine me. According to him I was about 2cm. He broke my waters to see if labor would come on it's own.
It didn't.
We waited until shortly after 2pm and nothing happened at all, not even a contraction. So the wonderful Nurse that I had (She really was perfect) called the Doctor and he ordered the oxytocin. That started somewhere between 2 and 3pm. Slowly I started getting contractions. They really weren't that bad to start, but I went into this labor knowing that I wanted an epidural. It was actually one of the first things that I said to my Nurse...the exact words were "And I'm all about the Epidural." DH tried to tell me not to get too upset if I couldn't have one, but In my head I was thinking "what would stop me, I didn't have any problems having one with Ben."
Well, a bad car accident is what stopped me.
The anesthesiologist was in my room, we had the needle in my back, it was all hooked up and the test shot in when he got the call. The call that took him away from me to help save the lives of those unfortunate people in the crash. He said he'd try to get back as soon as he could to hook me up to the meds. At that point I was in A LOT of pain, but I figured 30 min maybe an hour and he'd be back...
He wasn't.
All I remember from that point on is the nurses giving me some meds through my IV. I can't remember the name of them right now, but they really didn't do much anyway...just kinda made my head a little faded. They gave me 3 shots of these meds and then gave up...they really weren't helping. So the Nurse decided to check to see how far I had progressed. That was close to 7pm, because she was saying that her shift was almost over and she was hoping that I would have the baby before she left.
I had gone from 5cm to 10cm in an hour, maybe an hour and half. It was time to push and still no Anesthesiologist. And it was too late now anyway...baby was coming.
Now before I go any farther I have to tell you that about Ben's birth. With him I did have the epidural and they had it turned way up. I felt nothing...not a contraction, not a pain, not even the urge to bare down. So going into this birth with no epidural was almost like doing it for the first time...I had no idea what I was in for.
So, back to the pushing.
Pushing is way better than just trying to get through the contractions. There was a purpose, and it didn't hurt near as bad as the contractions on their own. I think I did ok at the pushing. It seemed to be effective as I only had to push for a little over an hour. I didn't scream (according to DH and MIL) and I only cursed once out loud ( a whole lot more in my head). Time completely escaped me. As I said before I pushed for a little over an hour, but when I try to think back now I don't remember an hour going by, all I remember is Wil's head crowning and trying to wait for that last contraction. It seems like forever. All I wanted was to get this child's head out of my you know where and that contraction just wouldn't come.
When it finally did come, out Wil came, at 8:22pm. And you know what is really amazing? The Pain Was Gone! Instantly, just like that...
Now, for the last month of my pregnancy, I've said this baby was going to be BIG. I could just feel it. Literally. Many people guessed a few ounces bigger than my first (8lbs) but I knew Wil was going to be a big boy.
OK, so yes I am still pregnant and I soooo want this little Child 0'mine to get out out out!!!! He is now 3 days late according to my first due date of DEC 15th and I am so ready to get this over with.
On Wednesday I had an OB appt. I was 3cm dialated and 80% effaced. He could stretch me to 4cm. (DAMN that hurts!) So ever since everything has been kinda gross down there, mini pads back in use (had a good run without them though!) I do get contractions, but nothing regular, nothing that hurts any amount, and they tend to disappear within an hour.
So I am now on the induction list. Dr said as soon as they have an opening they'll call...how long is the list???? I'm doing everything that I can to get this going on my own...well except sex. (DH thinks I'm strange for wanting it right now - wont give it up) I spent most of today finishing up my Christmas Shopping, Grocery Shopping, walking laps around the mall - and while doing it, the contractions will start going - then they stop!!! JUST GET OUT PUH-LEASE!!!!
I know, I should be more loving and sentimental, but at this point I'm worried about having not being home for Christmas - I do have a 4.5 year old little boy that would be heartbroken if his Mommy wasn't around on Christmas.
So, little child o'mine - I'm am now begging and pleading, please send that signal and start working your way out. Santa is coming very soon, and if your not here he can't fill your stocking!
OK, going to rest now and try to tell my uterus to start contracting, thanks for reading my rant!
Well the holidays are here and many of us are enjoying all the wonderful family get-togethers, Holiday parties at work, and lots of special dress up occasions. I wish I could say I get to do that too, but not this year. With a baby due in 2 days I've missed most of the party fun that I could have joined in on. But...I still have New Years!! And I can't wait to show off this great necklace that I just received from Lia Sophia.
Now, usually I would show off a piece like this by putting it on and taking a picture, but as I said before, I'm 2 days away from 40 weeks preggo - not so photogenic right now. So my Mom offered to be my model.
Poetic Necklace
Genuine mother-of-pearl and varying shades of genuine grey agate flow gracefully from circular accents of polished silver. This necklace is made all the more special because it is this season’s designated Dress for Success piece. Dress for Success is a non-profit organization that helps economically challenged women worldwide transition from unemployment to self-sufficiency. lia sophia makes annual monetary and jewelry donations to this organization.
Now I'm all ready for New Years Eve! I get to wear this beautiful Mother Of Pearl and Polished Silver necklace along a very slimming black outfit!
lia sophia offers a huge selection of affordable jewelry, the perfect gift for any of the woman in your life. From Moms to Grandmothers, Teens to Professional, you'll be able to find something to suite just about all of your needs. Not only is there something for everyone, lia sophia is affordable and can suite just about any budget. With prices ranging from $14 to $220 and a LIFETIME Replacement Guarantee, you just can't go wrong! Be sure to check out lia sophia for your last minute gift giving needs! Or for that perfect accent to finish off your New Years Outfit!
About lia sophia
Founded 35 years ago, lia sophia is a family owned, fashion jewelry company whose products are sold directly to customers through a national network of independent sales women. lia sophia empowers women to become their own “CEO” and start their own business. Based outside Chicago, the company offers more than 500 styles of affordable, high-quality, fashion forward jewelry (as well as a high-end Red Carpet Collection) and an unparalleled opportunity for women to own their own business. Since 2004 lia sophia has grown its Advisor base 1,200 percent.
Disclaimer: The opinions in this post are mine and mine alone. Though the products were provided free of charge they did not persuade my opinion of the product in any way. Individual Results may vary.
Though I'm still not due for a few more days so I really shouldn't complain. According to my first ultrasound I'm due on the 15th - This coming Tuesday, according to my dates, I'm due on the 17th - or this coming Thursday. So lets just go with Wednesday! By the day I'm getting more and more uncomfy...tired of not being able to sleep (not that I will get to sleep after baby shows up) but at least I'll be able to be comfy for a few hours.
I keep trying to think back to when Ben was born, it's been 4.5 years and I know there is so much I'm forgetting. I'm sure there are a lot of things that will just come right back to me, that maternal instinct effect. But I'm a little worried about what I'll forget.
And Breastfeeding. I remember with Ben it was 5 weeks. It took a good 5 weeks for me to be completely confident in my ability to breastfeed, and for all the pain to go away. Hey, If I can be preggo for 40 weeks, I'm sure I can put up with 5 weeks of nipple pain. And if I'm lucky, maybe it'll be a little less since I already have experience...
I should be nervous....shouldn't I????
I know that I will be giving birth to a new little person sometime in the next week and I am not nervous at all....not of the birth anyway. I feel like I should be. Last time around I was in labor for 42 hours (or somewhere around there) and though I'm fairly sure it wont take that long this time (It better not) I'm not even scared. I think that they ruined me when Ben was born. I had the ever loved epidural and it was turned up nice and high. I couldn't feel anything from the waist down...not a contraction, no urge to push, people had to hold my legs for me cause they were just like rubber. But it worked for me, cause he pretty much crawled out. The OBGYN came in and checked me, and he was crowning on his own. The nurses rushed to pull the table appart, I pushed for maybe 20 min and out he flew...well kinda, they had to stop long enough to take the cord from around his neck. (Note to all OB interns....when you are helping with the delivery of a baby, do NOT gasp loudly when baby comes...it kinda freaks the momma out)
The thing that's stressing me out is not my impending labor, but Christmas...I have pretty much everything bought and wrapped for Ben, but I still have NO CLUE what to get for the rest of my family. I think DH and I are going to buy our gift to us tomorrow morning. (Canadian Tire has a sale on Kitchen Aid! Stainless Steel pots and pans for only $98!!!! But shhhh...don't tell anyone, I want there to be some left when I get there!)
I still have my inlaws, my parents, bro, sis, bro inlaw and niece and nephew... really kinda lost on what to do for everyone other than a few pics when the baby finally shows his face.
Well, I'm hoping this is the LAST Belly pic I share with all of you - unless you really want to see the post baby belly...
Not the most flattering of pic, but at 9 months pregnant I'm really not that worried about.
I had a DR.s appt. on Tuesday Past... and was 2cm dilated, and 60% effaced. So there is a little going on, he did a bit of a stretch but nothing much has happened since. This weekend would be a great time to have a baby...hint hint. If not, I have another appointment on the 16th. Oh, and I hit that scary # on Tuesday, I was exactly 200lbs...hoping to loose 30lbs on the table. I wonder what my chances are...
I love that I get to play with so many baby clothes right now...Love Love Love it! And there are so many wonderful sites/shops out there just chalk full of the most adorable items that you just can't find locally! I'm so lucky to know that my little guy will be dressed to the "T" in clothes that not every other kid has...shopping online really does make a difference.
One of my new favorite shops is the Canadian Based Nifty Knees (Woohoo!!! I love to shop Canadian!!) On Friday last I received a package in the mail from Nifty Knees. It had the most adorable pair of Baby Leggings I've ever seen...and the only pair I've actually touched. I've seen them online before but never had any for our first born. I'm thrilled! I can't wait for baby to get here so I can dress him all up! He'll be wearing the adorable blue striped baby leggings and the great long sleeve onsie that Nifty Knees sent as well.
The Onsie is very soft, and of really good quality. I find such a difference when you shop in smaller shops online - the quality of the clothes just seems so much better. This one is nice and thick - and long sleeved! I find those very hard to find locally. The leggings are adorable, and go so well with the onsie! I've already washed both products and they came out of the washer with no problems. The Onsie can go into the dryer, the leggings I am laying flat to dry. (as per the instructions)
Nifty Knees has offered everyone 15% off from now until December 15th! Use Coupon Code "abusymommy" to claim your savings!! (Available to both Canadian and US Shoppers)
Since I love these adorable baby clothes so much, Nifty Knees has offered to give one lucky A Busy Mommy reader a Nifty Tee or Onsie and a pair of Baby Leggings!
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Disclaimer: The opinions in this post are mine and mine alone. Though the products were provided free of charge they did not persuade my opinion of the product in any way. Individual Results may vary.
With our new baby coming very very soon (10 days until my due date) I am having so much fun looking at all the adorable clothes. Recently I checked my mailbox and found a wonderful package from a company called Bot-Tots! They make very adorable 100% organic Baby and Childrens' Clothes as well as a recently added Childrens Book printed on 100% recycled paper.
I was lucky enough to receive two items from their shop, an adorable green onsie featuring their character Buddy Botberg and a very cute baby bathrobe featuring Bernard the Dog. Both items washed very well, there was no cracking on the graphic for the onsie, no shrinking or loose strings. They both held their shape very well through both the washer and the dryer.
First of all the onsie. I adore it! It's made from a great quality of cotton, it's nice and thick and holds it's shape, not floppy at all. The graphic on the front isn't too hard or crunch either. What I really like about it is how bright it is!
The Bathrobe I received is beautiful! It is very soft the graphics are embroidered onto the fabric. It has a small graphic on the hood and another on the breast. The robe belt is short and sewed on, so there is no reason for worry. I can't wait to wrap our new baby in this after his first bath!
I am really happy with the clothes that I received from Bot-Tots. Their bright colors and bold characters are more then welcome around my home and I can't wait to start ordering more for baby! And it's always a good feeling when you are purchasing a product from a company that gives back. 5% of all proceeds goes to My Shoes Inc, an organization that provides mentors and social events to foster youth.
Disclaimer: The opinions in this post are mine and mine alone. Though the products were provided free of charge they did not persuade my opinion of the product in any way. Individual Results may vary.
No. My water hasn't broken, I'm not in labor...nothing real exciting is going on. I'm just uncomfy. I want to be able to sleep. Isn't that what everyone says...sleep now cause when baby comes you wont be able to. Well, I have something to say about that...
I think that natures way of getting us ready for motherhood is by not letting us sleep for the two months before. Waking up every couple hours because the Bun In The Oven is dancing on your bladder. The achy hips, back, restless legs, heartburn are all included in the wonderful combination of pregnancy symptoms that make sleep elude us.
Now, in a perfect world I would use this time wisely - clean out a closet or scrub the floor, but since I have people in the house who are sleeping, It would be quite rude of me to wake them. And I have cranky people who live in the downstairs apartment - they're bedroom just happens to be underneath my kitchen. And they go to bed at 10pm...
So, it's now 3:48 and I have now loaded myself up with sugar...Orange Crush, Queen Anne Chocolate Cherries and a couple of cookies to boot! I guess sleep just wont happen for me tonight. I'm going to sit and keep on watching Three's Company and hope that my eyes get heavy.
